We love this mother’s approach to parenting.
While a list of ‘dont’s’ may sound like an odd way to empower a young girl, once you read through this list you may be converted.
Toni Hammer admits that she was bullied when she was younger, so she wanted to equip her daughter with some life lessons before starting kindergarten.
We wish we had this kind of knowledge when we were younger!
“To my daughter,” the post began.
“Don’t apologize when someone else bumps into you.
“Don’t say “sorry to be such a pain.” You’re not a pain. You’re a person with thoughts and feelings who deserves respect.
“Don’t make up reasons as to why you can’t go out with a guy you don’t wanna go out with. You don’t owe anyone an explanation. A simple ‘no thanks’ should be acceptable.
“Don’t overthink what you eat in front of people. If you’re hungry, eat, and eat what you want. If you want pizza, don’t get a salad just because other people are around. Order the damn pizza.
“Don’t keep your hair long to make someone else happy.
“Don’t wear a dress if you don’t want to.
“Don’t stay home because you don’t have anyone to go out with. Take yourself out. Have experiences by yourself and for yourself.
“Don’t hold back your tears. Crying means you’re feeling something that needs to get out. It’s not a weakness. It’s being human.
“Don’t smile because someone told you to.
“Don’t be afraid to laugh at your own jokes.
“Don’t say “yes” to be polite. Say “no” because it’s your life.
“Don’t hide your opinions. Speak up and speak loudly. You should be heard.
“Don’t apologize for being who you are. Be brave and bold and beautiful. Be unapologetically you.”
We don’t think truer words have been spoken.
No doubt this little girl will be raised to be self confident and will understand her worth.
What’s the best piece of advise you were given when you were growing up?